Alert control

alert [ə'lɝt]

adj. 警觉的，警惕的，注意的;思维敏捷的;活泼的; n. 警报;警戒状态; vt. 向…报警;

al=ab加强+ert直→警惕的

control [kən'trol]

vt. 控制;管理;限制;支配; n. 支配权;操纵者;（对国家、地区、机构等的）管理权;（键盘上的）控制键;

We really don't have to be overly concerned.

我们真的不需要过分担心。

That's excellent.

那太棒了。

Second, if your friends have problems, do not give advice. Ask questions instead, such as What do yo want? How do you feel about it? What are you afraid might happen? They will be able to find answers to any problems themselves, with your support. They

“你需要什么？你对此感觉怎样？你担心会出什么事情？”在你的支持帮助下，无论什么问题他们自己都会找到解决的办法的。他们需要的只是鼓励和信任，相信他们在尽力而为。